Miss Jessie Review Part 1

A part 2 will be a post instead of a video, So here are the results :) Check it out.

Self-Motivation of the week.

I started to get back in the hang of things to my blog and I decided to just start opening how I keep myself motivated and on track with all the things I do to balance out school and my self-care routine. I hope all are inspire by my words to keep pushing forward in life,because I know it can be rough sometimes.

I want to start off that I have been reading this book called "All the joy you can stand" By Debrena Jackson Gandy and her words, the ways she put her words are transforming my life as I type this. and I decided why not share what I have been learning and studying thur-out this book.

I am so happy and grateful that I can finally say this...I'm free. I no longer overload myself with work,because I have learned we need breaks at times. Giving,and giving and giving and not loving and taking care of you first is the main objective of what I want to speak on. The more you neglect and push off what you know is hurting (inner-self/spirit) You will feel restless, tension in your muscles, weight problems and underweight problems start to occur. This shows that the body is SCEAMING for you to love it again. I feel like if you take care of what you need to do, and simplify your life, it will feel and BE so much easier. And it's probably not just life in general, relationships,addictions,toxic friendships,bad habits,overloading the body with to much. Yes the body can take it but when you push to much on yourself,your spirit starts to get out of balance of what I call self-sabotage. It not only just hurt on the inside, but it will start to show on the outside. Following your 1st mind,your heart, your intuition whatever you wanna call it, It can lead you to wonders you never thought you could ever finish....

I was having a problem with balancing out my blog and my YouTube channel and I always just procrastinated about every idea I wanted to share with everyone, I wanted to be out, do last-minute studies before tests and quizzes, I will always be with my boyfriend and I feel now, This is the time God is forcing me to do it. He is helping me not feel overwhelmed and still be able to pamper and take care of myself. And I know that this is my time to work on this dream of mines..which is to heal,and help people who wants to help themselves.And It made me have to think different. Make different choices..DELETE loser friends and most of all love me, & all of me. And as I'm going into this journey right now. I want to share that if you ask yourself what are at least 3 things that are not making my life simple? And when you get that answer Ask yourself " What are at least 3 things that I can do to make my life simple".Life will be simple and you will get in this state of Solitary Refinement , Where you learn to love being and doing things by yourself, you start to work on your spiritual muscles and learn that God is waiting for you to be still...be at ease, But YOU can on make that choice..No one else.

                K.I.S.-Keep it simple

Update / Haul :)

Flat twist Review/ Heat Damage gone bye-bye !

I been a pro lately with the flat twist hair-style and it's last enough days for me to start a new day with working with my hair, Here are photos.

I do want to say this style last than any other styles ( Bantu knots,braid-out etc ).  I can really say it looks better after I cut that relax ends off, Speaking of cutting hair , I cut some more off... ( Heat Damage all over my hair :( 

All this hair was fizzy for no reason, I don't use towels on my hair and when I will take down a hairstyle, it will have any curl pattern and STILL fizzy, so it had to go bye bye, My hair is short..I can't really tell that I got a hair cut.

It's less fizzy now, and more manageable, there's still some more loose heat damage in my hair but 95% of the heat damage hair is GONE. Proud of myself, still wanna cut some more tho. The Flat Twists last about 4-5 days at the most, I can style it any way, I don't do any special way to put it up at night when I sleep, Just put my satin pillow case scarf on. Proud of myself and my hair, it took me awhile to keep this going, and I just bless God glad me Strength,Courage from other you tubers and I let it be...

My Flat-Twists lasted, I don't have to do to much in the morning but put some products in and be on the go.I will give Flat-twists a 5 out of 5, More Reviews like this will be more often I try on my hair. I like lasting styles...and this is one of them. So happy my hair loves it like I do !